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lookin' for a long term friend with benefits, life’s way too short, let’s have fun, but let’s be good & honest with one another.

Divorced, have 2 beautiful kids but i live out with roomates. Born & raised in gorgeous San Diego. Love walks on the beach or by a lake. Love old blk & wht movies but also modern movies. Like art, animals, and music of every type & genres, especially dance, rock, metal, oldies, sensual/new age music,woodstock, etc. I'm 5'9, chubby/husky but have a firm strong looking physique and not flabby. I enjoy helping & caring for people which is why i work in the hospitality industry.

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Punk Lifestyle

Favorite punk bandThe Kinks, The Ramones, Sex Pistols, Misfits
Goes to live shows:Occasionally
Preferred type of punk rockPsychobilly, Other

Blues Preferences

Reasons for loving bluesThere’s so much soul and rhythm in blues. And it’s performed from the heart.
Favorite blues genreChicago blues, Country blues, Delta blues, East Coast blues, Harmonica blues, Modern Electric blues, Texas blues, Other
Favorite blues artist or bandJohn Lee Hooker, Chuck Berry, Santana
Plays instrumentGuitar, Bass
Started listening to bluesAs a teenager

Metal Music Preferences

Drawn to metal by:Def Leppard, Quiet Riot, Twisted Sister
Favorite metal subgenres:Celtic Metal, Death Metal, Hair Metal, New Wave Of British Heavy Metal (NWOBHM), Progressive Metal, Thrash Metal, Other
Goes to concerts:Once a year
Favorite band:Metallica, Iron Maiden
Favorite song:Infinite Dreams, Alexander The Great
Favorite music festival:OzzFest
Worst metal band:Not sure
Dates only metalheads:No

Tennis Preferences

Plays tennis:Once a week
Skill levelIntermediate
Favorite type of surfaceHard

Rock Music Preferences

Favorite genre of Rock Music:Classic Rock, Garage Rock, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Indie Rock, Pop Rock, Progressive Rock, Rock and Roll
Favorite band/artist:Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Doors
Drawn to rock by:Pink Floyd
Favorite song:Anything from Zeppelin, Floyd, or Doors
Goes to concerts:I watch concerts on the Internet

Appearance

EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureLegs
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Job Title(Health-care)

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Sports, Re-runs, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsBig Bang Theory, Jeopardy, AGT, Married w/ Children & 3's Company reruns.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Thriller, Adult
Favorite moviesCasablanca, Rebel w/out a Cause, Pink Floyd The Wall, Scarface, Goodfellas, Dirty Dancing, Ghost, Pulp Fiction
Music typesCountry, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artists(All the crooners), Cab Calloway, Chuck Berry, Johnny Cash, Beatles, Cream, Janis Joplin, Pink Floyd, BeeGees, Heart, New Order, Metallica
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Sports
Favorite booksRobinson Caruso, The Cay, Misery, The Godfather
Idea of funAny activity or event where my partner & I are completely comfortable, uninhibited & laughing
HobbiesExercising, Sports, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Dining, Photography

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Cool dude
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeTrying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing dress-up, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryI'll tell you later

Views

ReligionNot religious
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo be the best father to my kids and to be the best friend, lover, and companion to the special lady in my life if/when i find her

Looking For

Must haveHumor, Oddities, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerEasy going like me and non-temperamental.
On the first dateI will surprise you...in a good way.
EthnicityNo preference
Body typeA few extra pounds, Average, BBW/BHM, Curvy, Stocky, Thick, Voluptuous

Sports

Enjoys playingBadminton, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football (American), Football (Soccer), Ice Skating, Racquetball, Softball, Table Tennis, Tennis, Volleyball, Other Sports
Enjoys watchingBaseball, Basketball, Football, Football (American), Softball, Tennis, Volleyball
Favorite teamSD Padres, Chargers, Chicago Cubs, Buffalo Bills
Favorite college teamSan Diego State University

Exercising Preferences

ExercisesAerobics, Walking, Yoga